I am sick :(

Hi my lovely blog, sorry been a while I am not coming here.
Sorry for my careless of you. I know, everytime I feel alone I always come back to you.
You are my only one friend I have who willing to be a place of my complaints, happiness, and sadness stories.
Well, I told you as first that I am sick rightnow. Yesterday I went to a hospital. Not for checking up my health. But for accompanying my boss. Probs, I was not in good condition and I easily get affected of viruses which are cough and flu.
It is serious for me. Because I have never had any diseases before. Just migraine or headache, but I just need sleep to relief it.
And now, it feels so torture me. I can't breath with both nostrils, cough whenever I can breath, and having sore throat.
The worst with this situation is, I am home alone and today is Saturday I supposed to be in my college and today there will be a middle test of translations. I cannot go any where but in bed. I am dying at home and I dont want everybody get affected by my viruses.
I hate being home alone. Makes me feel further about feeling alone.

The tissue is my friend for sleeping

You know, I am now so galau. Yes, galau, sad of no reason. Or maybe sad because of a stupid reason, missing someone who doesn't care about you haha.
Yes this sickness makes me feel alone then missing someone who doesn't even care about me (I guess so).

I am sorry bloggy, I haven't told you about this yet.
You want me to tell you now? really?
Okay....

You know, I have no any courage to date someone around me. Or get flirted by guys who are around me. Yes, there are, few guys. But they are just 'joking' on me whenever they say I am pretty, or they wanna date me. And I dont get it as a any propose or feeling butterfly in my stomach. I dont really get it. Just for fun.
So that I've tried few date sites (I feel embarrassed to confess this tbh lol).
There is Tinder, the app like 'hot or not'. The app will let you choose 1 of 2 choices, like or nope for the photo pops up. The photos are from people around. You can adjust with your preferences to meet, male or female, range of ages, and range of miles/km distance.
I adjusted to meet males, 20-35 year old, and 35kms away. Yes I like guys who are mature so that I prefer until 35 years old. Well, age doesn't measure someone's maturity. After you sweep like, and someone who you have swiped like also sweep like for you, you will matched with him and you are able to chat with him.
I knew that app was from my friend, she told me that she was on a date with a guy and showed up the pictures of them. The guy was really good looking and I asked her, where did you know him, I didnt know you had a friend that cool and handsome. She laughed and said, she met him by a date app. So yeah.... I was curious about that app and check it out on the playstore (yes, i am android user ^^v)
I installed the app, and starting to surf. Yeaaaahh, guys on it are HOT! I couldn't stop to keep in that app. Sweeping right for the handsome, mature, wear eyeglasses, beards, pointed nose, looked-smart guy.
It was still in the first day and I was crazy about that app. I got tons of match, but not all of them giving message to me. Well, maybe I am not as hot as they thought.
I tried to greet someone, it was a guy, matched with me. He wears eyeglasses, pointed nose, bearded, and tall (from the picture), and from the picture he looks chubby. Those are really my type! lol.
I was classically greeting him by say 'Hi'.
He greeted back with late reply and told me that he doesn't get notification from the app. I said no problem, and asked him is he wanna chat on another messenger, because I have WhatsApp. He said yes, and I gave my number.
He greeted me on whatsapp and we chat on it. He was really friendly, mature as his look (he has long beard), and funny. Actually, he is an expatriate in my city. He lives in the west almost central, and I live in the south. I dont know, I didn't ask many things about him, because our chat has many topics. We found some topics and we talk about it for a long time, we laugh, we were sending selfies, and we also had time to arguing. To let you know bloggy, he is 31 and I dont think that he is literally old for me. He is a nice guy, you know I have ever met with some foreigners who speaks English as their mother-tongue and they are just telling me that I have bad English and dont wanna talk to me anymore because I am too boring.
He was not like that at all, I think because he said he has been here for 1 year and living around locals so he understands about Indonesian in English speaking skills. Well, at first we didn't speak on the call, we were texting and sending pictures. And ya! He also never talks about any sexual things. It was very natural between me and him. Talk about cultures, our preferences, our looks, etc.
He was questioning me that I was interested in him, just because he is not in the same age as me. He thinks (perhaps)I was too young for him. Honestly, that's all I want. I want someone mature to take care of me, treats me right, understands me. I have heard a lot that a man with few ages older are understand and treat women more very well. But that was not an answer that I told him. I told him because he is 'bule' lol.
Yes, I also like bule. Not just because they look much handsome than Indonesian guy (for Indonesian girls).
Because they also have higher feeling of responsibilities toward women. They appreciate more, they are care more, sweeter, and more romantic. Those are my opinion, I have seen many bule couples and the guy treats his girl so sweet. I really wanna be like the girl.
But I think he was offended with my answer, he thinks he got a lot more things besides he is just a 'bule'.
Yes he is. He is the most mature guy I have ever met, treats me rightest, appreciates me the most, but hurts me the most as well afterwards (will tell you later bloggy :*)
And yaaaa, that was about how we met. The point is, I've fallen in love with him in the first sight with his physical and his behavior.

After few days of chatting, we are giving 'kode' or sign for making a meet-up haha.
I dont really like to make a move, but that time. I was really excited to get to know him in person. So I was just said "How about tomorrow? what time you like?" It was on Monday. He said about noonish. We planned to meet-up on Tuesday, 1 PM at a mall in the central.

The next day....
My phone internet was running out, and I wasn't available to connect with internet. So I sent him SMS to assure him we would meet at the time we have planned

His confirmation :)

I wasn't dress very fantastic as if on a date. Just a long-sleeve shirt and a trousers. He said we would go to a cinema so I wear something that I shouldn't have to wear sweater haha.
I was going to the mall by public buss. At first I plan to get APTB, a bus which directly from my place to the mall. But it was boring to wait over 15 minutes. So I got the little car to get to a busway shelter. I took from nearest shelter.
It was needed to transit once in a main shelter and continued to another buss.
When I was in the second buss, it was crowded inside at the shelter. And when I came in the buss, it was 2 male bules stand beside and in front of me. They were so tall like I was just as tall as their armpits.
I was wondering will I be the same beside Mike (ups, yes, his name is Mike hihi).
I was in the middle of the buss. Because in front of is women area and behind is men area.
When the buss stopping in the Monas shelter, the bules went out and some of the people. So the buss getting loose of people. I walked to stand in women's area. When I looked around to see where is the seat is available back and forward, I was stuck on a guy who holding his phone not far from where I stood. Was staring at him for few second, trying to recognize. Something de javu with his facial look. AH! That's him!
I was still just standing just 5 steps from him. Waiting him to look at me back, wasn't a long wait, I smiled at him. He smiled back. I was constantly waving my hand to him with a big smile, he looked still awkward to waving me back lol. I ran to him (not run literally, just did a fast step. It was tricky with the high heels haha)
"Are you Mike?"
"Yes.."
"I am Verial!" yes, you knew it, with a very very very big smile.
I was completely nervous afterwards. I stood beside him. Surprised me because he was not chubby at all. He was attractively tall, long hair, long beard, nice eyeglasses, and has nice scent (that is manly things that I really like from men, wangi!)
We talked in the buss. But I was still very nervous, spoke very quiet, he should've asked me many times "what? what did you say?" hahaha.
After we arrived to the shelter for going to the mall, he showed me his secret way to get the mall. The small street, very quiet, he said he loves walking in a quiet place like that and told me to dont tell anyone of the secret way. Haha I dont know why he is better at knowing the roads in Jakarta than me. I am a very very bad Jakartan.
When we were arrived, we first went to a coffeehouse. He ordered a coffee without sugar, and I ordered coffee flavored cake (I dont really remember the name on the menu list).
There, I started to feel comfortable beside him. He sat beside me. I usually sit facing my partner haha.
We were talking about many things.
To be honest, I have never made any psychical contact with people I just met. Only shaking hand for introducing myself. But when I was with him, I was not shy at all. I touched his beard, smelled his fragrance, tickled his belly, or held his hand when walking (after long day together). He also like to tickling me. Everything was fun around him. I was just not thinking about any sad things or problems in my life (that sometimes I feel it even in the crowded with some friends). Just with him, I can laugh and feel the butterflies in my stomach.

He drew this when we were in the coffeshop

I dont know how deep is my feeling for him. I just can't stop thinking about him. Always wondering what his feeling for me. But seems like he doesnt really into me. It was only that day, and another day just ordinary days between us. I am not a type of girl who is always trying to get attention from her crush. I am a cool girl, I have heart, feeling, and I think logically (Why should I have to care too much about someone who doesn't care about me even not at all).
I know when people care about me, and when they are dont.
Yes, I also not always silent. I've tried to keep in touch with him by asking how's his life, and he as well asking me back.
He is completely not a bad guy, he is still kind guy after we met. I just think he doesn't feel the same way as mine. And it hurts me. Not so much, I am not a drama queen.
I was really want to tell him about my feeling. But not sure it will work out on our relation in the future. I just want to keep the chance to meet him one day again, and repeat everything we have done together that day. Maybe not as sweet as the first meeting, because we are just friends! haha.
We are good friends, even though I have special feeling for him. I dont care.
If he had the same way, he would tell me. Because he is a man.
If he didn't, it still fine for me.

And yeah, bloggy. That was my latest heartbreaking story. Haha I feel much better to tell you.
I should've told you before. But this time is perfect time to get better from that feeling and feel better to write it down.
See you latter, my friend! mwack!

I'm Just Moving on

  

If you look at the sky, be sure that you see the same sky as I look at.

Which you can hear my yearn.

Which the only one of our same space.

Which you told me to say hi when I miss you.

I know things would change in a second.

Rids everything we have done.

Everything we planned to.

And every promise us made.

Now is nothing.

I'm happy to be your nothing.

Because, nothing lasts forever.

We did too much compulsion.

To be same, yet we completely different. 

Besides those things,

The way you try to walked step away,

Feels like you way too far from me immediately.

Yes I'm impatient, maybe.

I'm too much, maybe.

And I just make up excuses, it might be.

If it is possible to exchange feeling,

I want you to feel being ignored, and lied.

And I want to know what you think when you ignoring me.

You wouldn't can conceal how much disappointing it is

And I wouldn't even mind to it.

I Am Exotic, Aren't I?

Hallo cute! *looking at the mirror* lol
Finally I got a chance to write again here. My lovely blog, that always be there with me whenever I dont have anything to do and being insane dancing through the Beyonce's songs.
Haha anyway have you ever thought that Beyonce is a superwoman?
I love and she inspires me. You know why?
I hope not, because I wanna talk much about her why she can inspire me a lot haha.
But actually there is a biggest thing that I always amaze about her, her skin. The second is her booty. You maybe think I am a lesbian who admires woman's body.
Heck no. If you've ever read an article about research, there was written "girls also like to watch porn, but most of them see the body of the female artists. to compare what type of body that could turn on guys" (more or less, like that).
So, so do I. You can see Beyonce is very very exotic woman. She was crowned as the most beautiful woman.

Okay lets back to my point. I see her very natural, she can show and be proud to be what she is.

And I wanna be like her because I've had so much bully since I was a kid and it was fed me up. 

I am Indonesian. Indonesia has many type of people. There are bright and dark skin. 

I have dark skin from my dad. Since in elementary school friends always call me "black" actually until now, but I'm not take it as a negative point anymore. Not because I get used to it, but because now I know the reason that I am not like the other girls who have nicely white skin.

I am not ugly, I am unique (...and exotic)

I also get big booty from my mom, people said it is FAT!

Hey, omg, what year is it?

Honestly, I've never seen any beauty or sexy from skinny girl. Sorry for skinnies, I dont mean to judge you. If skinny is not your fault, so you are lucky to not be bother to be fat even eat much meals. But if you try to be skinny just because wanna get guy's attention, you shouldn't have did that.
I guarantee that guys also prefer to curvy that skinny.
And if you dont know what the difference between curvy or fat;
curvy is )  ( ,
and fat is (   )
So even I say that skinny is not good, neither is fat. Fat is not healty.
All you can do is loving yourself. But still do for a better life.
That is what I could get as I grew up. I've met so many people in my life.
Internet brings me so easy to get in touch with very far far away people. Then I could learn from them.
They could see and appraise what I thought that is my infirmity.
Remember, God has created humans with their varieties of skin.
If God made all humans in the same skin, world will be so boring.

Falling In Love For The Second time

Haloo, what’s up my blog. Been long time again I’ve gone too long and come back when I don’t have any single person who is willing to listen up my story. Yeah, feel like I just come to you when I need you. But blog, you are still the greatest world’s friend of my life. Okay, I have best human friends, so you are the one which not a human lol. But sure, I will always count on you whenever I feel alone.

And you know what’s happening with my life? I have an update for you. No no no, it’s not about break-ups again. I wanna stop thinking about it. I was born not for such wasting things.
So now I wanna share about my carrier, yeah not at my main job. This is about I am teaching! XD

I feel so excited. Haha because I don’t know that I could do this. Like I was a stupid student, and now I should teach students. Okay okay, these are students not for a class for a school. I give a course for them in different place and time. Like I spend time for my students and I need to make schedule to teach them in a week. Three days for the one, and two days for the another one. As you know, I am in university only on Saturday and on Sunday I dont wanna disturbed with any of work things. I feel different in teaching or working in an office. Teaching is much happier for me. Even though I dont have any education to educate. I just feel I've ever been a student so I could know what they haven't know about lesson. So that I teach them whay I used to learn. This is like my exact world. Being around student, I teach them, and they could get what I've taught. That is happiest feeling. I feel like I am falling in love for the second time, to teach. 

Oh before I describe about my teaching, I wanna introduce my students. They are only 2 students! HAHA

But what? I am still so excited about this. The first is a 7th grader student, and i teach him English. This is very hard at first I taught. Because when I was in 7th grade, I was just learn to know some letters, how to spell them in “English” accent, directions, and some basic English more. But nooooww, it’s way far from what I used to learn! He wasn’t need about letters, words, sentences. “My school not learn them anymore, I’ve learned when I was in 3rd grade” he replied when I asked about my old 7th grader English lesson haha. So I need to change my lesson plan for him. Then, I’ve starded with tenses. And yes, I know just a little about this. So I tried to start with the very basic tense ; simple present, past, and future tense. Fortunately, he was still not really understand with this subject. With some explanation, examples, and exercises that I’ve given to him, he started to opens his eyes and understand it. Happiest feeling to see what I’ve taught and the student is understand. And I started to make lesson plan for him with some subjects and exercises with my creativity and also from internet :D

Now, the second student is a little cute girl. She is 3rd grade. And I teach her some lessons of her study. Hmm, those are 5 lessons. Math, English, Science, Social, Bahasa Indonesia. No need long time to be close emotionally with her, at first day I taught her we were so close. Like as sisters, maybe because I don’t have younger sister, and she doesn’t have elder sister so we are connected emotionally easily. Proves when the second day we were studying together (I call this because I act like study together with her, not teach her like formally teachers do), there was a bazaar that held close to our house because our houses just take 3 minutes by walk. She asked me to go there together. At first I refused because it was at night and too late for going out for little girl like her. But she was very smart, she asked for permission to her father and said will go with me then she is win. So we went together and she told me so much stories from school, friends, and family. I listened up all her said, and replied with some advice that suitable for kids. Okay, I feel like I am so mature, but I like to be around people who accept me as they need me and exited with my existence. Yeah, sometimes I feel so alone in middle of a group of people. Move on! She looks very excited that I am with her, me as well, absolutely. All I hopes are she will be a good girls to everyone even though she is already, respect me as her teacher, and appreciate me as her friend.

Yaaaa that was my story for these days. I feel so happy with this happened to me. Everything that comes to my life, I’d appreciate it like I wanna write them down for my book of life. Unfortunately I don’t have enough time to write them all. With very exhausting work at office. Yet, I am happy with lots of experience. I am happy with all God has given to me.

See you very very very very very soon my blog. Mwack!

Beauty of Indonesia

Some people say, "Why should go abroad if you dont know your own country?"

Yes, it's true. Indonesians too much underestimate their own homeland sometimes. To say going abroad it looks cool. Only people with lots of money and high intelligence who are able to go abroad.
But heeey, do you know about the beauty of Indonesia?

We also have bunch of places that you will feel like in abroad. Dont believe me? Let here see this picture :

9gag prooves it

Lots of people I know vacation abroad, especially those of the upper middle class. Go all the way up to Europe. Yes there is nothing wrong, I also want one day to Europe. But look at your own country, which is incredibly beautiful.

Talk to local people, they have a lot of interesting stories about their hometown. If you want the streets looking for clothes in Italy, check Kauman Kampung Batik in Solo, if you want to see beautiful mountains in Scotland, see Lake Toba in North Sumatra first .. Before looking at the Eiffel Tower, check out Tana Toraja traditional house. Before watching Kabuki in Japan, watch the Wayang Golek show.

Do not forget your country. Indonesia is not less beautiful and no less amazing than the other countries. Open your eyes and realize that your country also has the mountains, sea, sand, historic landmarks, tall buildings, and so forth. This is your country, your own flesh and blood derived from this country. Let we love, and learn to appreciate our country.

Trip to Anyer, Banten

Anyer is a beach town in Banten. It is located at Anyer, 38 km from Serang City. The beach is facing the West, so we can see the view of Mt. Rakata (the remaining / child of Mt. Krakatau that exploded in 1833) and the sunset. A beautiful sea sight with all activities such as Jet Ski, Speed Boat, Para Sailing and other aquatic sport, those types of activities can be found here, as well as sunset view from the beach and an old lighthouse at Cikoneng. A lot of hotels from jasmine to international 5 stars can be tourist best choices to stay. Anyer is a popular beach resort for Jakartan (like me)
Anyer beach has many unique enchantments. Its white sands amaze many tourists. They are so pure; we can feel the softness of the sands. The deep blue sea attracts many divers around the world because its various sea lives are so completely perfect. The sea breeze can make visitors' mind fresh, out of stress and enjoy. And the last enchantments that can make Anyer beach as the most favorite place to visit is the view of the legendary Krakatau Mountain and its historical lighthouse.
It is located in the west coast of Java about 120km from Jakarta. Sanghyang, 10 km off Anyer beach, is an easy diving destination for Jakartan divers who can only spare a weekend. This volcanic island offers white carbonate-sand beach and a wealth of underwater life, while Anyer offers a gorgeous sunset.
 (http://www.indonesia-tourism.com/banten/anyer-beach.html)
But, there are hotels which not allow the visitors to go to the beach freely. Eventhough the hotel serves sea sight as the best view of the hotel. Dont, worry, you can drive for a little or you can take public transportation until the Pantai Pas (Beach).
Fortunately, in Mambruk Hotel where I stayed, I could go to the beach for a little. That was pretty good, as you can see from my photos. I still could see the sea sight, walked on white sand, and it was probably to rent a boat to go to small island in front of the hotel. But I didnt get much enough to rent it. Because I was there for fulfill the duty, not for holiday. So my time was not much :(

Here are my photos in Anyer, Banten. I got so much lesson and relax time here. With met many new people, fresh air, beautiful beach, sunsets and sunrises. Feel grateful I had chance to get here for duty. Like holiday while in duty :D
So here there are....


Day 1

Taking pictures of the neighborhood

Mountain were amazed me along the trip

Arrived! Here was almost sunset. Let's wait awhile :)

Took a selfie :3

With Teh Nunu (one of my roomates)

With another roomate, old but gold

Selfie again!

Greeting from the sunsets

Still get astonished with the sunsets

There are boats over there!

Day 2

Spice Girls! haha j/k. Enjoy the view before meeting started

In the meeting of workshop

Discussing about managerial non formal education

Day 3

In front room of attendants (oh yes I look fat -_-)

See the water is so clear..and my back is a seaa!

Ok, that was a thumb blocking on the photo

 

Not that cold actually :D

Never been as happy as this time while working

Posed before go back to the room

Someone bought a baby octopus from the beach!

On little becak (that is just for display but we played with that ahaha)

The last minute in the room before check out :(

Feel like Balinese hihi

Those are manggoes just upon my head!

 

The duty was finished :( And I got wrong spelled name -_- BERLYANI, please. ugh nvm

With roomates visit market before go back home, they are very beautiful aren't they ;)

Me, with double backpack, back and front hahaha

And those are the photos of my holiday due the duty hehe. I got many experiencess from those people who attend the workshop. Eventhough I was the youngest, I felt so grateful I could be in this part earlier. I know about non formal education further and makes my self-esteem improved.

Thankyou for spending your time to take a look my blog. Hope you have a nice day! mwack!

Trip Jakarta - Anyer by Public Transportation

Heiii how are you readers....! Feel like I have many readers LOL.
Hummm, been long time not show up here and had bunch of spiders web all around my blog ahaha. Joke!
Did you know? I was travelling just alone! To another city! Anyer! Took 6 hours!
Oh, did I say that I live in city of Banten province? Yeah, actually I live here in South Tangerang, Banten Province. And Anyer in Banten Province as well.
Why did I say it from Jakarta and took 6 hours to get same Banten?
Hold up hold up....lemme tell ya.
I live in South Tangerang and it is practically exactly just seperated by a river from South Jakarta. Soooo, if I said I live in Jakarta or I live in Banten Province, I wasnt wrong haha.
This is the map if you dont believe me :p





Then, where my Alone Trip story?
Haha okay I just started up with the area definition.
Did you know why I travelled to Anyer, and alone?
Actually I wasn't take the trip with my own plan. But it was from Education Departemen of Province to held a Workshop for every Community Learning Centre in Banten Province each city. I chose from the one of them, but only one person of foundation who could attend it. So that I went just myslef. Believe or not, I took public transportation and just spent about Rp 50.000,- for the fare.

Strated with...Oh, to let you know, I just take public transportation to get Anyer from South Tangerang.

I went to a busses terminal in Kampung Rambutan (East Jakarta) by 510 from Ciputat or you can get the bus in Lebak Bulus Terminal, I paid Rp. 3.000,-. Here its look :




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I went by that buss untill Terminal Kampung Rambutan, the busses stop.
After that I just need to choose any buss with destination to Merak, because I need to stop in Terminal Bayangan Cilegon. Just ask to the buss driver "Cilegon?" if he replies "Ya ya, lewat Cilegon" (Yes, yes, passes Cilegon). Kinda forgot which one I chose. Because too many busses with Merak destionation. I paid Rp. 23.000,-. Here the Kampung Rambutan Buss Terminal :


Busses come at this gate
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Busses in the terminal with several destionations
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Busses go out with this gate
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In the buss, probably took 3 hours. Because passes many highway's gates. I spent with sleep and taking some moments of view outside. Unfortunately, the buss went fast so the picts are blured haha.
Dont forget to pay attention to the street signs! So you'll know what area that you've passed and you wouldnt be like me -_-
Here my sad story :
Every buss driver should has assistant to sell tickets to passengers and to hear any passenger needs. I gave him message to remind me in Cilegon when I pay the ticket he gave me. Then when it was in Cilegon the driver assistant said "Cilegon...Cilegon!". And you know what, I fell asleep!
No, I didn't hear that, Sir! I was fell asleep! W Y U NO WAKE ME UP!
Yeah readers, my bad. All I remember just when I woke up I saw the street sign that shows "Merak" with go straight symbol.
"Whaaaattt? I just missed Cilegon?!!" I was panicked like I'd never fulfill my duty or even come back to Jakarta and meet my family. Oh yes, it is hyperbole.
I asked the old guy behind my seat "Pak, Cilegon sudah lewat ya pak?" (Sir, did Cilegon has passed).
He replied "Iya, barusan aja lewat. Sekarang udah mau ke Pelabuhan Merak" (yes, just passed it. Now we are going to Merak harbor"
Harborrr???? Oh my God I didn't ever been to Harbour and dont know what I should I do now oh God T.T
Then I asked him again "Terus kalau mau ke Cilegon bagaimana Pak? Saya sebenernya mesti turun di Cilegon" (Then how to get back to Cilegon, Sir? Honestly I should stop in Cilegon).
"Ooh, nanti naik bis yang ke arah Jakarta aja lagi. Nanti juga lewat Cilegon lagi" (oh, later you just take the buss to Jakarta, it will pass in Cilegon as well).
After say thanks to him, I felt so relax.

The view was so beautiful. All along the way I saw are beautiful blue sea because of sunshine brightly and big ships that maybe for importing and exporting products. I astonished to saw all of the beautiful view until I get the Merak busses terminal. And it also an harbor.
I tried to ask how to get Anyer before I take the buss to Cilegon. I asked to a man who I assumed he is from this place and knows the way around terminal.
"Kang, ka Cilegon kumaha nya?" (Mr, how to get Cilegon?).
Oh, because there is people talk with Sundanese, so I also talk with the language. My mom is Sundanese and I am good at it hehe.
The man just replied "Oh, iya tau neng. Sini akang anter" (Oh, I know. Here I ride for you).
I didn't understand why he didn't just tell me how to get there. I walked little to follow him, he took his motorcycle. And I know, he is tukang ojek! (ojek man) it is same as taxi driver but they use motorcycle to carry the passengers. And the price is slightly different. Because using his own price. So you probably find different prices between one and another tukang ojek. We MUST to ask first before you take ojek. Dont pay after you get the destination. They will suck your blood!
And also one tip for yo, dont ask how to get a place to them if you prefer to take another cheaper public transportation. You can ask to police officer, or people who sells anything. Just people who doesnt have any business with transportation like drivers of taxi, ojek, becak, etc etc
Dang, that was my first word in my brain. Immediately I sad to him "Kok ojek? Saya cuma tanya jalan. Soalnya saya mau ke Anyer" (why ojek. I just asking a way. Because I wanna go to Anyer)
"kan gampangan pake ojek neng. Akang anter sampe cilegon. Nanti tinggal naik angkot arah Anyer" (using ojek is easier, isn't it. I'll carry you until cilegon. Then you just take public transportation to Anyer)
"Nteu ah Kang, nuhun" (Sorry I dont wanna, thankyou)
Then I walk a little more and find a man wears light green waistcoat with word POLISI (police). Yes, perfect person for asking. I came close to him and ask the way again.
"Neng naik angkot merah aja yang sebelah sana, nanti turun di simpang tiga, dari situ ada mobil silver sampe Anyer" his explaination. (You can take the red car overthere, stop in Simpang Tiga, then you take the silver car until Anyer)
After say thankyou I just go to find the red car. Not far I found it and of course dont forget to ask wether your destination is suitable with the car's direction destination.
"Simpang Tiga, Kang?" (Simpang Tiga, Sir?)
"Muhun, Neng" (Yes). With no more words, I get in it.
But... If you didnt have problem like mine, you can stop in Cilegon and take the cute purple color car. It looks like this:


With labels "Simpang - PCI"

But, because of I was lost and accidently passed Terminal Bayangan Cilegon, I took another car. It was red color with Simpang Tiga destination as well (thank God). Here its look :


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Fifteen minutes later, the driver told me "Simpang, Neng" (Simpang, Miss)
"Oh, nuhun kang" (thankyou, Sir) I went out and paid Rp. 6.000,- to him.
Then I immediately found the silver car make a line along the road. To make sure again, I asked the driver "Ke Anyer Hotel Mambruk ya, Bang?" (To Anyer, Hotel Mambruk, isn't it?)
"Iya neng, Iya" (Yes, Miss. Yes)


I got in it and just sat down with many passengers in front of me the natives. They talk in Sundanese language but some of them speak Bahasa with sundanese accent.
This part is the longest trip by car. Because it goes to the road which has many holes and passes with many big cars such busses or trucks. All the road just dry sand and goes like smoke will make you coughing. Dont take it serious, if you arrived to the beach, you will see blue sea with calm waves, fresh air, village, and kinda silent place.
It took for about 1,5 hours from Simpang to Mambruk Hotel, Anyer. Place where I have duty and stay there for 3 days. Actually there are many hotels there because the beach is quite well-known by people to spend holiday at beach. Here are the fare of the car :
Simpang - Pasar Anyer Rp5.000,-
Simpang - Hotel Marbella (Anyer Beach) Rp10.000,-
Simpang - Pantai Carita Rp15.000,-
Simpang - Labuan Rp20.000,-
So I paid Rp. 10.000,-

Finally, lets count how much I pad for the fare..

Ciputat - Kp. Rambutan Rp. 3.000,-
Kp. Rambutan - Merak Rp. 23.000,-
Merak - Simpang Tiga Rp. 6.000,-
Simpang Tiga - Mambruk (Anyer) Rp. 10.000,-

Total : Rp. 52.000,- !!


But yeah, it was pretty hilarious experience I've ever done. It'd be easier and probably cheaper and more comfortable to use private car. But I liked to take trip by public transportation. The reasons are I was alone, and I cant drive a car :D
So thankyou so much for reading my experience of my trip to Anyer. I know it is boring for you. But this is the way I write maybe would help anybody who wants take a trip by public transportation too. I will post another thread which uploaded many photos in Anyer and my social activities there. Was excited because I met many people from education department, and I was the youngest! lol yeah.

Whoop! See you soon..... mwack! xx